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	<title>Comments on: The You That Takes Your Breath Away</title>
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		<title>By: Life Bubbling With Life</title>
		<link>http://www.unabashedlyfemale.com/2010/01/21/the-you-that-takes-your-breath-away/comment-page-1/#comment-3213</link>
		<dc:creator>Life Bubbling With Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 01:55:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] like Spring, we do what we do, when we don&#8217;t talk ourselves out of our earthy, juicy, blossoming selves. We remember what we long to do, we remember that we long for life to do to us, &#8220;what spring [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] like Spring, we do what we do, when we don&#8217;t talk ourselves out of our earthy, juicy, blossoming selves. We remember what we long to do, we remember that we long for life to do to us, &#8220;what spring [...]</p>
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		<title>By: On The Edge Of Wholeness</title>
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		<dc:creator>On The Edge Of Wholeness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 01:47:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] writing my last post, The You That Takes Your Breath Away, I remembered something I wrote a few years back. It was never shared here on my blog. In fact, I [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] writing my last post, The You That Takes Your Breath Away, I remembered something I wrote a few years back. It was never shared here on my blog. In fact, I [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Kate</title>
		<link>http://www.unabashedlyfemale.com/2010/01/21/the-you-that-takes-your-breath-away/comment-page-1/#comment-2880</link>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Oct 2010 14:46:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My first time to your blog, as a friend directed me to this post ~ BEAUTIFUL! So lovely to read these words, as I&#039;ve been feeling much the same thing lately ~ the pull to be absolutely and imperfectly authentic NO MATTER WHAT! And it is so incredibly freeing! Thank you for sharing yourself like this!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My first time to your blog, as a friend directed me to this post ~ BEAUTIFUL! So lovely to read these words, as I&#8217;ve been feeling much the same thing lately ~ the pull to be absolutely and imperfectly authentic NO MATTER WHAT! And it is so incredibly freeing! Thank you for sharing yourself like this!</p>
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		<title>By: whollyjeanne</title>
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		<dc:creator>whollyjeanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 17:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you know, i&#039;ve been honored to study death and dying and be with many people as they crossed that threshold, and one thing i often tell their loved ones: the dying person always blossoms or rallies before she dies. i&#039;ve noticed that i kinda apply that to my life. when i have a creative project, i give myself a deadline . . . then i procrastinate. i always hated myself for doing this, but recently i&#039;ve realized that maybe i&#039;m treating myself as a hothouse flower - forcing myself to bloom. as the deadline approaches, i am forced to push through any negativities or resistance or doubt and bloom. and while it&#039;s nice that i realize what i&#039;m doing, the important benefit of that realization is how much energy it takes and how much sleep i lose and how much of the process i don&#039;t get to enjoy because of that seemingly-needed procrastination a.k.a. push. i&#039;m working on changing my routine to allow for &quot;justbecause&quot; (my word of the year) projects. to work on things because they are important to me, because they won&#039;t leave me alone until i do work on them. am changing my routine to allow time to savor the juices of working on those babies - enjoying all the things i miss when i&#039;m in overdrive to meet a deadline. does that make sense? it seemed to when i read your post, but as i write amid the interruptions of the dog and the dryer dinging and the text message and such, it seems less clear. oh well. 

ps: wait, you&#039;re on fb? how to find you coz i can never get too much of julie daley;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you know, i&#8217;ve been honored to study death and dying and be with many people as they crossed that threshold, and one thing i often tell their loved ones: the dying person always blossoms or rallies before she dies. i&#8217;ve noticed that i kinda apply that to my life. when i have a creative project, i give myself a deadline . . . then i procrastinate. i always hated myself for doing this, but recently i&#8217;ve realized that maybe i&#8217;m treating myself as a hothouse flower &#8211; forcing myself to bloom. as the deadline approaches, i am forced to push through any negativities or resistance or doubt and bloom. and while it&#8217;s nice that i realize what i&#8217;m doing, the important benefit of that realization is how much energy it takes and how much sleep i lose and how much of the process i don&#8217;t get to enjoy because of that seemingly-needed procrastination a.k.a. push. i&#8217;m working on changing my routine to allow for &#8220;justbecause&#8221; (my word of the year) projects. to work on things because they are important to me, because they won&#8217;t leave me alone until i do work on them. am changing my routine to allow time to savor the juices of working on those babies &#8211; enjoying all the things i miss when i&#8217;m in overdrive to meet a deadline. does that make sense? it seemed to when i read your post, but as i write amid the interruptions of the dog and the dryer dinging and the text message and such, it seems less clear. oh well. </p>
<p>ps: wait, you&#8217;re on fb? how to find you coz i can never get too much of julie daley;)</p>
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		<title>By: Kate</title>
		<link>http://www.unabashedlyfemale.com/2010/01/21/the-you-that-takes-your-breath-away/comment-page-1/#comment-987</link>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 15:59:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ooooh your words brought tears to my eyes. The way you articulate or unfortunately too often tendency to &quot;hide our light under a bushel&quot; as my mom says, is beautiful. How perceptive to notice that we are the only species who has a choice not to blossom. And sometimes we don&#039;t. But sometimes, when we make that choice, like you did in this post and in your writing, the blossoming takes our breath away. You, m&#039;dear, take my breath away. And thanks for reminding me that sometimes I do too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ooooh your words brought tears to my eyes. The way you articulate or unfortunately too often tendency to &#8220;hide our light under a bushel&#8221; as my mom says, is beautiful. How perceptive to notice that we are the only species who has a choice not to blossom. And sometimes we don&#8217;t. But sometimes, when we make that choice, like you did in this post and in your writing, the blossoming takes our breath away. You, m&#8217;dear, take my breath away. And thanks for reminding me that sometimes I do too.</p>
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		<title>By: Charlotte Rains Dixon</title>
		<link>http://www.unabashedlyfemale.com/2010/01/21/the-you-that-takes-your-breath-away/comment-page-1/#comment-972</link>
		<dc:creator>Charlotte Rains Dixon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2010 17:54:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just as flowers don&#039;t prevent themselves from blooming, birds don&#039;t stop themselves from singing.  They just sing.  They don&#039;t worry what the other birds think, as far as I can tell, or try to sing in a smaller voice.  They just sing.

Flowers blooming, birds singing...your words are so inspiring to me this morning!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just as flowers don&#8217;t prevent themselves from blooming, birds don&#8217;t stop themselves from singing.  They just sing.  They don&#8217;t worry what the other birds think, as far as I can tell, or try to sing in a smaller voice.  They just sing.</p>
<p>Flowers blooming, birds singing&#8230;your words are so inspiring to me this morning!</p>
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		<title>By: Walter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Walter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2010 13:44:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All of us are capable of greatness. Our only limitation is our false beliefs. We need to emancipate from this in order to see our powers. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All of us are capable of greatness. Our only limitation is our false beliefs. We need to emancipate from this in order to see our powers. <img src='http://www.unabashedlyfemale.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kristen @ Motherese</title>
		<link>http://www.unabashedlyfemale.com/2010/01/21/the-you-that-takes-your-breath-away/comment-page-1/#comment-969</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristen @ Motherese</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 14:26:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is just lovely, Julie.  Thank you for these words, for your courage in saying them, for the motivation to bloom.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is just lovely, Julie.  Thank you for these words, for your courage in saying them, for the motivation to bloom.</p>
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		<title>By: becca</title>
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		<dc:creator>becca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 13:02:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For all the times I&#039;ve been told, &quot;just be yourself&quot;, &quot;be true to yourself&quot; or &quot;love you for yourself&quot;, nothing has really resonated with me, until your words you&#039;ve written here.  I love this.  I want to tape this to my wall or even better, staple it to my head!  

Thank you for this inspiring post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For all the times I&#8217;ve been told, &#8220;just be yourself&#8221;, &#8220;be true to yourself&#8221; or &#8220;love you for yourself&#8221;, nothing has really resonated with me, until your words you&#8217;ve written here.  I love this.  I want to tape this to my wall or even better, staple it to my head!  </p>
<p>Thank you for this inspiring post!</p>
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		<title>By: Square-Peg Karen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Square-Peg Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2010 14:35:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful!! I kept thinking of the Anais Nin quote I fell in love with years ago: &quot;There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.&quot;

And it&#039;s not just the risk, but the energy it takes to remain - like you talked about. After a time - after we&#039;ve learned how to protect ourselves -- So. Not. Worth. It. 

Love how you honor the self-protection thing - not saying anything with shameful connotations, just opening into the flower you are. Inspirational!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful!! I kept thinking of the Anais Nin quote I fell in love with years ago: &#8220;There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.&#8221;</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s not just the risk, but the energy it takes to remain &#8211; like you talked about. After a time &#8211; after we&#8217;ve learned how to protect ourselves &#8212; So. Not. Worth. It. </p>
<p>Love how you honor the self-protection thing &#8211; not saying anything with shameful connotations, just opening into the flower you are. Inspirational!</p>
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